And so it follows that women (and men) who do not have pictures posted of themselves receive far less attention from the opposite sex
Your first e-mail to a potential mate is your only chance to make a good first impression, so make sure you don’t screw it up!
- Don’t sound to pushy or too needy. That’s an immediate turn-off. Try to play it cool.
- Compliment the person on something you’ve read about them in their profile or compliment them on their photograph. If she has blue eyes then tell her they’re the most gorgeous blue eyes you’ve ever seen. If she has huge breasts tell her that you’re a real fan of big breasts and she has the most gorgeous breasts you’ve seen on the site (don’t be shy – this is an adult dating site after all!) Compliments make your e-mail personalised and it shows you’ve taken the time to check them out.
- Mention that you share some or all of her fetishes (which will be listed in her profile). This again shows you’ve taken the time to read her profile and makes your message more personalised. If you like, you might want to share a short fantasy you have that involves her and some of the fetishes she’s listed. Remember, try to use her own desires to win her over!
- Attach a picture of yourself. Some women get hundreds of e-mails a day and may not take the time to check out your profile, so attach a picture of yourself and tell her there’s more to come if she likes what she sees.
- Try and be humorous. Even though Adult XXX Date is an adult dating site, that doesn’t mean that you should leave your sense of humor at the door. A funny or amusing remark can really boost your chances of at least getting a reply to your first e-mail.
- End with a question or proposition. Questions can help keep the conversation flowing and will prompt her to reply. You have much more of a chance of getting a reply if you ask her questions in your e-mail. It also shows that you’re interested in learning more about her.
- Keep it brief – this is just a feeler e-mail and is not the best time to be writing her a e time, a one line email is sure to be ignored! A paragraph or two, or maybe even three is plenty!
- Follow up your e-mail with another one if you don’t get a reply. Don’t be pushy or angry, but just be polite and ask her if she received your first one and if there’s anything else she wants to know. She ongst all the other e-mails she received. So a gentle reminder e-mail is always a good idea.
- Write a template e-mail, and modify part of it for each person you send it to. Here’s what I do – I write a 3 paragraph email; the first paragraph is about her, why you like her and why you think you’d be a good match; the second paragraph is about you, who you are and what you’re looking for; the third paragraph asks questions and I try to insert the odd joke in. I send the same e-mail to all the girls I fancy first time round, but I always modify the first paragraph to suit the girl I’m sending it to. This method of using a template saves time, but is flexible enough to allow you to personalize each e-mail you send.
You have to realise that all the guys on Adult XXX Date will be e-mailing mainly the gorgeous girls who have sexy profile pics!
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